Also, the vet said that if we elected to, we could have surgery and they would remove the tumor and spleen but the recovery would be long and painful for him and should it be malignant, his time would be cut a lot shorter. Considering his age and overall condition, we've decided, Julie, Melissa and I, that we will make him as comfortable as possible and allow him to live out what time he has... Believe it, we will spoil him too.
He has been such a wonderful friend and pet. When people tell you that a dog or cat is just an animal, well to put it bluntly, they're full of shit. Ralph is as much a family member as any of our children are regarding the love and care that we afford him.
We've had him a little over 11 years now and never ever was there a moment when any of us regretted having him. We don't know when the time will come and can only hope as you would for a terminally ill relative, that he will pass in his sleep... I love you Ralphy.
That is all for today, I've lost my writing appetite for now. Bless you all.